The INSIDER Summary: In a new survey, the average person said eight dates is the acceptable time to wait to have sex. People also said that they dont always kiss on the first date, even if its going well. Millenials also wait 48 hours to ask about a second date, while older people wait three days, on average.

How long should you date before sleeping with someone?

Harry Metcalfe/Flickr Based on the findings of several studies, Coleman suggests that at least three months into a relationship — or when its clear the honeymoon phase is over — is the best time to start having sex.