The 90-10 rule is about making it clear—through words, actions, body language, whatever tools you have—what you want to do, and then letting the other person decide if its what they want too. If she doesnt come the other 10, theres no kiss.

How many minutes is a kiss?

Today, an average kiss lasts more than 12 seconds. In the 1980s, couples came up for air sooner than that: back then an average kiss lasted a mere 5.5 seconds.

What are the 10 steps to kiss?

Just remember to take it slow. Have your lips touch softly as you feel the person out. Keep your lips just slightly parted, and continue kissing the person for five or ten seconds before letting go. Keep your hands active while you kiss.

Which way do you lean to kiss?

When initiating a kissing “move” (men were 15 times more likely to initiate the kiss) right-handed people leaned right and left-handed people leaned left. The person being kissed, regardless of whether they were left or right handed, responded by matching the partners head leaning direction.