INFJs value quality conversation highly. As you get to know the INFJ better, dont be shy to flatter them! Let them know exactly what you love about them and how much you appreciate having them in your life. They are also likely to appreciate hugs, touches and other physical displays of affection.

What is attractive to INFJ?

INFJs are often attracted to people who are passionate souls, with so much going on inside of them. Compassion and being able to really listen are also qualities the INFJ is naturally attracted to. Someone who actually shows caring towards others and is not constantly focused on themselves and their own feelings.

What makes INFJ happy?

With an inherent sense of idealism and morality, INFJs are often happiest when they are helping others. The type, nicknamed the advocate, is known for fighting for what they believe in and working to ensure the well-being and equality of others. INFJs dont just dream about a better world.

How does INFJ show interest?

“I show my interest by listening carefully and giving them my undivided attention. I lean towards them while talking or may put an arm on their shoulder, which is saying something, as INFJs normally like their personal space.”

Why are INFJs so unhappy?

Making meaningful connections is not easy, and making that effort comes with a heavy price. INFJS actually invite sadness. We dont do it on purpose, but we need to feel validated. We need to make sense of how we feel, and being sad is the logical explanation of our emotions.

Who Should an INFJ marry?

Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, INFJs natural partner is the ENTP, or the ENFP. INFJs dominant function of Introverted Intuition is best matched with a personality type that is dominated by Extraverted Intuition.

What kind of music do INFJs like?

We love and have an affinity for depressing music. Of course I always pay attention to the lyrics and sometimes it happens to be actually sad…but most of the time INFJs appreciate the calming and understanding sound that comes out of acoustic ballads.