A player – defined most simply as someone who fakes a serious degree of romantic interest while often conducting several similar relationships simultaneously – is deceptive and manipulative by nature.

What does Played mean in a relationship?

The expression “being played” generally means being taken advantage of by someone you care about. Why should you care, how does it happen, and what can you do about it? You should care because both the act and the outcome of being played are deeply damaging to your sense of self and to your relationships.