Maintaining Healthy Relationships At the end of the day, people with BPD can fall in love; it just takes some work from both sides of the relationship. Treatment is the first step — options may include: Individual and couples therapy. Medication.

Can you trust someone with BPD?

Its common for those with BPD to trust people, no matter what the quality of the relationship is. At the same time, its also common for someone with BPD to be needy, constantly seeking attention and validation to soothe insecurities.

Do people with BPD cheat?

Infidelity and BPD Some people have negative associations between BPD and infidelity, but there is currently no research that shows a connection between BPD and an increased likelihood of cheating. Two of the key features of borderline personality are problems in relationships and problems with impulsive behavior.

How do you calm someone with BPD?

To help someone with BPD, first take care of yourselfAvoid the temptation to isolate. Youre allowed (and encouraged) to have a life! Join a support group for BPD family members. Dont neglect your physical health. Learn to manage stress. Listen actively and be sympathetic. Focus on the emotions, not the words.More items

Can you stay married to someone with borderline personality disorder?

However, the stability of a partner may have a positive effect on the emotional sensitivities people with BPD experience. It may require a great deal of work from both partners, but long-term relationships and marriages are possible for people with BPD.

How do you calm down a borderline episode?

If you suffer from borderline personality disorder, here are some ways to help cope with the symptoms that can lead to or trigger an episode:Take a warm shower or bath.Play music that relaxes you.Engage in a physical activity.Do brain teasers or problem-solving activities.Talk to a sympathetic loved one.More items •27 May 2018