The Reverse Ultimatum turns ultimatums inside out. Instead of issuing a verbal ultimatum (Commit to me or Im leaving you), a Reverse Ultimatum takes the opposite approach. Instead of pressuring your partner, the Reverse Ultimatum uses human nature to inspire the one you love to WANT to be committed to you.

What is an ultimatum relationship?

When youve made your boundaries clear in a situation or relationship and someone is consistently disregarding them, it may be worth it to consider setting an ultimatum. At this point, you may tell your partner that they need to stop this behavior or your relationship will not continue — this is an ultimatum.

How do I give my partner an ultimatum?

While its almost never cool to give someone an ultimatum, it is okay to give them a warning that tells them theyre pushing it. This gives you an opportunity to communicate how their actions are affecting you, lets you reassert your boundaries and makes it clear youre serious about them changing their behavior.