eharmony Uses Those Answers to Find Potential Dates Be honest with the site and with yourself because thatll be better for you in the long run. The eharmony site uses the information from your questionnaire and dating profile when its scouring its user base for potential dates and partners who fit your criteria.

Does eHarmony Send matches?

For those of you who are a little more forward, you have the option of sending an eHarmony Mail to any of your matches at any time. If they deny your eHarmony Mail, dont fret! This is not a rejection, as your match may just want to get to know you using Guided Communication first before using eHarmony Mail.