Is it bad to not want to date someone with HIV?

Two, because there has never been even one reported case of a person with an undetectable viral load transmitting the virus. If, however, the reasons you dont want to date an HIV-positive person have nothing to do with the safety of your sexual health, then by all means, avoid them.

How do you date when you are HIV-positive?

HIV Dating TipsConsider having the talk well before you find yourself in a sexual situation.Tell the other person when you are both sober.Read up on HIV, safer sex, treatment as prevention, HIV transmission and U=U (no chance of transmitting HIV if you are on treatment and your viral load is undetectable).More items •1 Jun 2021