The person who feels a connection first should make the call – regardless of their gender. With most relationships, one person senses the possibilities first. One person sees the spark before the other.

Should I wait for him to call me first?

My answer is yes, you should go ahead and make the first move. After the two of you either texted or talked on the phone and youre passively waiting around for a man to call or text, you could actually be hurting your chances of having a great relationship.

Should you call before a first date?

“That could be as simple as calling or meeting up with a friend right before your call with your online match. Then, while youre on the call with your potential date, try standing up and even walking around, or go for a walk outside while you chat! If you really dont want to take that pre-date call, thats okay, too.