What do you do when your daughter is dating someone you dont like?

Raise it as a concern rather than a criticism and dont then bring it up every time you see them. Theres also no need to make your disapproval obvious to your childs partner. This person may become your son or daughter in law, or a long term partner. Accept them as your childs choice.

Should your child or spouse come first?

1. “My husband must always come before our children.” A spouses needs should not come first because your spouse is an adult, capable of meeting his or her own needs, whereas a child is completely dependent upon you to meet their needs.