Some aspects of dating in your 30s make the process harder—such as a shrinking candidate pool. In addition to a more narrow playing field, dating in your 30s means youve probably endured your fair share of failed relationships. So have most other eligible singles you come across.

Is it weird to still be single at 30?

Being single in your 30s is often seen as a consolation prize instead of the amazing experience that it can truly be, says Stephanie Lee, a relationship expert and coach. But those who experience it learn that its actually pretty fun—and that what other people think about your relationship status doesnt matter.