You can just go for it and say, “Want to come over and hook up?” Or try, “I want to kiss you right now. Come over.” Just saying, “Lets have sex,” is pretty direct and cant be confused as you implying anything else.

How do you tell someone you want to hook up?

Try something along the lines of: “Ive been having a lot of fun and Im just wondering what youre looking for out of this.” Let her know that you dont need an answer immediately, but that youd like to talk about it before this goes too far.

What does it mean if someone wants to hook up?

Hooking up is used to describe a sexual encounter (vaginal, anal, or oral sex) between two people who are not in a dating or serious relationship and do not expect anything further, their study says. Theres more risk than having sex when its planned.