Dating a military service member is not like dating a civilian. Military members sign their lives over to the government. They can still be worthwhile and successful, but you have to let go of some of the traditional dating rules.

What is the penalty for adultery in the military?

Punishment For Adultery Under The UCMJ The maximum punishment for adultery, defined in the Uniform Code of Military Justice as Extramarital Sexual Conduct is a dishonorable discharge, forfeiture of all pay and allowances, and confinement for up to a year.