You can start with flirting to see if he responses. Something as simple as a special smile, casting a longing look, or engaging in witty banter may be all it takes for him to start flirting back. New clothes or a new hairstyle may also help the widower take notice.

How do you attract a widower?

Be curious. One of the best gifts you can give a widow or widower is to ask questions about their loved one, and to listen to their stories about him or her. Be gentle. Losing a partner is traumatic. Be supportive. Be understanding. Be grateful. Be confident. 5 Things No One Tells You About the Loss of a Spouse 0.28 May 2019

How do you navigate a relationship with a widower?

Watch for red flags. It can be hard for a widow or widower to feel comfortable introducing a new partner to family and friends — or, for some, even to be seen in the community. Communicate your relationship needs and goals. Dont let yourself be a consolation prize. Tread lightly when it comes to children.16 Feb 2021