If you need to make important decisions, you should wait for at least one to two years following such a significant loss. This will give you sufficient time to process the death, go through the stages of grief, and regain some of your diminished cognitive capacities.

Is it too soon to date after death of spouse?

Yes, it is okay to remarry after the death of a spouse. Some individuals find that they are ready to start dating again and pursue a new relationship shortly after losing their spouse. Others find themselves needing years to grieve the loss they have experienced or decide not to remarry- and that is okay as well.