Does relationship therapy actually work?

The bottom line. Marriage/couples counseling can help you work through conflicts and strengthen your bond. Its most likely to be successful when both partners are willing and committed to the process. And online therapy can be as effective as in-person counseling.

Can my husband see the same therapist?

There are even therapists who treat the couple by seeing each party separately for a period of time. There are valid reasons for both seeing each partner separately, and only seeing them as a couple. It is a clinical decision that each therapist makes on his or her own. There is no hard and fast rule about it.