Ending a relationship with a narcissist is incredibly difficult. Sometimes a triggering event will motivate the narcissist to leave. These are usually life-altering events for one of you. Illnesses, aging, and job losses or promotions can act as triggers for the narcissist to suddenly abandon the relationship.

Why did the narcissist discard me?

When the narcissist feels that you are no longer serving them, they will discard you. The narcissist lacks empathy, which prevents them from understanding how their words affect others. They cannot put themselves in someone elses position and understand that they can be brutal and mean.

Do narcissists forget you easily?

So, no a narcissist doesnt forget you. Thats how it is with a narcissist. They feel like they own you. In their mind, the relationship isnt over until either you die or they do.

Why do narcissists come back when you move on?

A narcissist will come back after no contact if they find themselves low on attention, and they consider you easy to get that attention from. Most narcissists hate being alone, and they need attention far more than most people. Narcissists dont care about your feelings, and they dont miss you.