You may lose your favorite bar. Another potential consequence of dating a bartender is that when you break up, you may feel uncomfortable going back to the bar where they work. Depending on how long you dated, you can usually resume bar visits once there has been an adequate grace period.

Are bartenders friendly?

In all seriousness, most bartenders are extremely friendly. We love seeing people have a good time and we are proud of what we do in the hospitality industry. We love to chat with our patrons as long as its respectful, friendly and without sleazy undertones.

Do bartenders like talking to customers?

Bartenders are more than happy to engage in conversation with a customer—its all part of a days work, along with shaking up cocktails, pouring out shots, pulling draught beers and generally making everyones day better. But its up to the customer to conversate properly and respectfully.