According to dating expert Evan Marc Katz, its perfectly okay for women to write to a man first, but where most women screw up that first email contact is by taking one of two approaches: Where most women screw up that first email contact is by taking one of two approaches: Telling him how great he is, or.

Should a woman reach out to a man first?

No! Theres nothing wrong with being the girl reaching out to the guy. In fact, guys appreciate you showing an interest. Guys like being shown that youre into him the same way you want him to show that hes into you.

Should a woman text a guy first?

You should text him first if, youre reaching out to him to genuinely connect and communicate with him. If for any reason youre texting him based on worry, fear or anxiety. Such as, trying to “keep his interest” or manipulating him to do something for you.