Start with something light and fun. You might try a simple, “Hey, whats up?” or perhaps a corny pickup line, if thats more your style. Transition the conversation to getting to know the person a little bit better than just their Tinder profile.

Can you hookup with people on Tinder?

Some use Tinder for hookups, some use it for casual dating, and some for finding love. Most use it for a mix of the three, or, rather: even if youre looking for true love, you dont know what will happen when you meet someone. So, if you want more Tinder hookups then you need to be REAL.

How do you ask someone to hook up on Tinder?

Most of my conversations were like this:Match: Im not looking for anything serious. Im just looking to have fun and sex. Me: Oh, Im sorry. Im looking for dates or friends or something like that…Match: Oh, what a pitty! Youre really cute and I really like you.Me: Thank you! Match: Thank you!

Is it OK to ask what someone is looking for on Tinder?

Dont ask someone “Hey, what are you looking for?” Go ahead and note what kind of relationship youre looking for in your bio — experts usually recommend doing that — but avoid asking about specific character traits. Men are more inclined to ask this question than women are, Golden says.